Sound familiar?

My business works because I over-function.

I know what to do. I just can’t keep holding all of it in my head.

I start strong, then life happens and I fall off.

I don’t need another course. I need someone to look at my actual setup.

Your business works because you over-function. That is not the same as having a business that works.

A cartoon box with a brain carrying a backpack labeled the invisible loadthat backpack? we unpack it together.

Why it keeps happening

It’s not a willpower Problem.

“Set boundaries” doesn’t work. “Take a vacation” doesn’t work. You’re not solving a behavior problem. You’re solving a capacity problem.

  1. ↓CapacityCognitive load is finite. Founders make 200+ decisions a day, most of them invisible. Exhaustion is the predictable result of decisions stacked beyond capacity.
  2. ↑RepsLasting change comes from structure and process design, not from trying harder. Your systems work better than your willpower.
  3. =DriftIf exhaustion follows you into every business model you build, the problem is structural. Structural problems need structural fixes.

you are not the problem. the plan was built for someone who doesn’t exist.

Ellyn at the stadium
Ellyn at the stadium
Ellyn at the stadium
Ellyn at the stadium
Ellyn at the stadium
Ellyn at the stadium

Weekly Build Lab

Every Tuesday

10:00

a.m. Pacific · live with me

bring the thing you’ve been avoiding.

What it is

This isn’t a course. It’s Access.

BPB is a support tier, not a learning program. Every week you bring what’s stuck, and we work on it together inside your systems. The thing you’ve been avoiding for three weeks gets unstuck in one call.

Knowing the pattern isn’t the same as changing it. That takes reps, not another reset.

Most programs stop at the plan. BPB is where the plan meets your actual week: you apply it, we debrief what held, and we adjust. Implementation over inspiration.

  • A monthly Live WorkshopOne Build Lab a month becomes a workshop on one specific bottleneck.
  • A private member spaceAsk questions between calls. I’ll notice if you go quiet and pull you back in.
  • Monthly check-insSo you keep moving, even in the weeks you can’t make it.
  • First dibs on what I’m buildingMy newest Notion builds, AI skills, agents and workers.
  • 25% off any additional support from meIncluding The Assist.

yes, you’ll get the resources. but it’s about the calls.

Built in, not bolted on

I have ADHD. So I built it In.

the rhythm holds structure. it doesn’t hold a grudge.

I’m not going to brand myself an ADHD coach. But I do have ADHD, and I built BPB the way I’d want to be supported.

  • Miss a live call and you’re not behind. You’re caught up the moment you watch the replay.
  • The call is never required live. Showing up however you can still counts.
  • There’s always a low-capacity version. When you have nothing left, BPB already knows what to ask of you instead.
  • Fell off for a few weeks? No restart required. Come back with the 3-Question Reset and pick up where your system actually is, not where you think you should be.
  • Monthly check-ins mean you’re never quietly falling behind.

designed by an ADHD brain, for whatever brain you’ve got.

From the team

What happens when you don’t do it Alone.

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BPB · Community

“I almost paid for a business besties membership and then I realized — that’s also what this is! We are business besties AND we get shit done!”
Addie Beal · Entrepreneur, BPB Community your people, every tuesday.
“If it’s burnout, I’ll always come back to you! She helped me put routines in place, prioritize my time and values.”
Karen Schiro · DC Metro Area Realtor
“I found Ellyn through her Notion tutorials. I loved the focus on burnout through efficient systems. I jumped all in… best deal ever!”
Angie Turgeon-Ladeau · Business Owner

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That’s about $29 a Build Lab.

  • Weekly Build Labs, Tuesdays at 10am PT
  • A monthly Live Workshop
  • Quarterly Game Plan Workshop
  • Monthly check-ins and a private member space
  • 25% off additional support, including The Assist
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Questions

Before you Join.

What happens if I miss a Build Lab?

Catch the replay. Missing one doesn’t mean you’ve fallen behind. The rhythm holds structure. It doesn’t hold a grudge.

Is BPB an ongoing membership or a program with an end date?

Ongoing. Stay as long as it’s helping. You can cancel anytime, and you keep access through the period you’ve already paid for.

I don’t have time for a weekly call right now. Should I wait until things calm down?

Think about practice. You can send someone chasing every ball, or put up a net once. Setting up the net takes time. So does chasing balls. One of them keeps costing you every single practice. BPB is where we put the net up, one stuck thing at a time. And the call is never required live. Catch the replay when you can.

I’ve joined memberships before and stopped showing up. Why would this be different?

Because falling off is built in. There’s always a low-capacity version, re-entry is the 3-Question Reset instead of starting over, and the monthly check-ins mean I notice when you go quiet. If you disappear, I’ll come find you. And it’s not more content to consume. It’s your actual work, applied in your actual week.

Can I pause my membership?

No. If you need a break, catch replays when you can, or cancel and come back when you’re ready.

Do you offer refunds?

No refunds, but there is a guarantee. Attend 2 calls a month and submit your monthly review. If you’re not satisfied after your first quarter, you get a free 90-minute session with me.

Does BPB include Systems School?

No. BPB is about access to me, not a course library. Systems School is sold separately. See Systems School →

How do I know if I need BPB or The Huddle?

In BPB, you build it yourself with weekly support from me. The Huddle is one day where we diagnose what’s broken and build the top priority together. See The Huddle →

I have ADHD. Will BPB work for me?

It was designed by an ADHD brain, for whatever brain you’ve got.

Your business shouldn’t need you at peak capacity every Day.

Rather build solo? Systems School →

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