6.3 - Whose Opinion Matters?

6.3 - Whose Opinion Matters?

Whose opinions are you internalizing? Often, we struggle with confidence because we're letting far too many people have a say in our lives.  And the shitty part of that is that you can never please all these people. You can never live according to that many people's lists of values. The more people you let having a say in your life the less you live according to your priorities, values, and goals. So, today we're going to get ruthless about deciding whose names belong on our list!


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About Ellyn

I've spent the the majority of my life doubting myself. Doubting whether I was pretty enough, smart enough, capable enough, smooth enough, etc. It was all about whether I was enough. I let people's external validation define me. Or rather, my perceptions of what people thought of me. Those perceptions held me back my entire life. In my career, relationships, perception of myself. Years later, I finally started focusing on what I could do. It took stacks of books and years of diligent work, but I finally feel like I'm moving toward the confident person I want to become!

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